金戈 发表于 2022-7-4 10:06:19

传给孩子10个习惯，胜过10套房子！

<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!--    付费贴-->    <div class="preview_article ">            <!---->    <p>&nbsp; &nbsp;好的父母，并不是给孩子留下多少房产，多少存款，而是言传身教给他们终生受用的习惯，从小养成孩子最珍贵的习惯。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;这10个习惯，是送给孩子最好的礼物。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704095155front2_0_25579_FppHheMW0rQzBX1MIgsYI0YTdHzQ.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="650" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704095155front2_0_25579_FppHheMW0rQzBX1MIgsYI0YTdHzQ.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; <strong>&nbsp;01.坚持阅读</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;古人云：&ldquo;书中自有黄金屋，书中自有颜如玉。&rdquo;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;阅读就像吃饭、睡觉一样，是人的一种生活方式。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;五谷喂养躯体，书籍滋养精神。&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;多阅读能开拓眼界，提高认知。读书破万卷，下笔如有神。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;董卿说：&ldquo;你在读书上花的任何时间，都会在某一时刻给你回报。&rdquo;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;许多时候，我们以为读过的书都成了过眼云烟，不复记忆，其实他们仍是潜在的。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;你读过的书，就在你的气质里，谈吐里，胸襟里，当然也在你的思想文字里。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704095335front2_0_25579_Fr3tb79zGMICP8BIQVeIRh7cAbRy.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="800" height="600" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704095335front2_0_25579_Fr3tb79zGMICP8BIQVeIRh7cAbRy.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>02.知道感恩</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;人生在世，可以没有家财万贯，可以没有丰功伟绩，但一定要学会感恩。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;感恩，体现了人与人之间交往的准则，也是人与人之间一种凝聚力的内核。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;教会孩子感恩，是一种生活态度，也是一种品德。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;常感恩的孩子，会体谅父母辛苦付出，珍惜身边的人，认真对待生活。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;常怀感恩之情，必得善念之恩泽，心境安宁之平静。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704095455front2_0_25579_FkG9BBvLgEJbfAkpfhE9ZU1IYiVp.png?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="602" height="401" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704095455front2_0_25579_FkG9BBvLgEJbfAkpfhE9ZU1IYiVp.png?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>03.会交朋友</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;近朱者赤，近墨者黑。和傻瓜生活，整天吃吃喝喝；和智者生活，时时勤于思考。和什么样的朋友在一起，真的很重要。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;交一个挚友，会成就你一生；交一个损友，会毁了你前程。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;有些朋友，能决定你的人生成败；有些朋友，能改变你的成长轨迹。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;人这一辈子，走不走得远，就看你与谁交友，就看你与谁同行。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704095610front2_0_25579_FqRY1Qy1dpLkWA0geCvBsRFVZppC.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1000" height="710" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704095610front2_0_25579_FqRY1Qy1dpLkWA0geCvBsRFVZppC.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>04.坚持底线</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;底线体现一个人的格局和修养，坚守底线是获得他人尊重的开始，也是修身立命的第一标准。&nbsp;</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;有底线的人，才能知分寸，守荣辱。不该做的事情，别做；不该拿的东西，别拿。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;坚守自己心中那条底线，不越雷池半步。一个人的底线，决定了他的结局。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704095722front2_0_25579_FhVbtg47xqrzBNjLQmPDKSn8Br65.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="640" height="480" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704095722front2_0_25579_FhVbtg47xqrzBNjLQmPDKSn8Br65.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>05.坚持独立</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;孩子小的时候，要学放手，教会她生活的本领。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;独立面对和解决问题的能力，是一个人必须具备的生存能力。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;独立，不仅仅是指生活的独立，也指精神的独立。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;自由、从容、淡定、优雅都源自独立。独立让你不依附别人，不恐惧未来。独立，就是你永远受用不完的底气。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;人生只有拥有自己发光的底气，才能收获活色生香的幸福。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704095849front2_0_25579_Fq7oft5Ohb25KUB8Ual7ITHbTpoP.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="1080" height="680" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704095849front2_0_25579_Fq7oft5Ohb25KUB8Ual7ITHbTpoP.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>06.尊重他人</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;爱人者，人恒爱之，敬人者，人恒敬之。人与人是相互的。想赢得他人的尊重，首先要尊重他人。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;有一种修养叫尊重。尊重别人的隐私，不八卦，不散布；尊重家长的关心，不厌烦，不打击；尊重别人的缺陷，不讥讽，不起哄。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;尊重他人是人生的必修之课，也是人与人交往的最佳法则。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704100004front2_0_25579_Fs647xJqwoNGg-uH5qy6pjV708qe.png?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="714" height="475" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704100004front2_0_25579_Fs647xJqwoNGg-uH5qy6pjV708qe.png?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>07.学会聆听</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;人际交往中，我们常常会误解别人，也害怕别误解我们。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;上帝创造人的时候，为什么只有一张嘴却有两个耳朵，那是为了让我们少说多听。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;聆听是我们了解别人最好的途径，也是一种与人交往的智慧。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;善于聆听的人，往往有更好的人缘，更多的福气。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704100105front2_0_25579_FgyE091N0MInYJK1izFYZAPYa17n.png?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="715" height="474" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704100105front2_0_25579_FgyE091N0MInYJK1izFYZAPYa17n.png?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; <strong>&nbsp;08.背后说别人好话</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;任何情况下，背后不说他人是非。听到某人说别人的坏话时，只微笑。如果一定要你说，说好话。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;祸从口出，福亦从口出。背后说人好话，是一种高级的修养。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704100202front2_0_25579_Fk60y3G3nC41Pi2of7kGz0XWhoc_.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="500" height="370" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704100202front2_0_25579_Fk60y3G3nC41Pi2of7kGz0XWhoc_.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>09.保重身体</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;这个世界上最脆弱的是生命，人最大的错觉，是来日方长。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;身体是幸福的本钱，记得善待它。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;无论多忙，记得吃早餐。早睡早起，少熬夜，多运动，是不变的信条。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;有一个好的身体，才有一个更好的未来。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" style="position: relative;" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704100405front2_0_25579_FrvMZlbygQtaeYDg93EtbccYYvXS.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="600" height="600" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704100405front2_0_25579_FrvMZlbygQtaeYDg93EtbccYYvXS.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;<strong>10.喜欢自己</strong></p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;每个人都不可能完美无缺，只有从内心接受自己，喜欢自己，坦然地展示真实的自己，才能拥有更成功快乐的人生。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;也许很多时候，并不是那么喜欢自己，但更多时候，你要学会接受自己。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;没有人是百分之一百完美的，期待别人完美是不公平的，期待自己完美更是。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;喜欢自己，从与自己的缺点和平共处开始，去拥抱自己的优点。</p><p>&nbsp; &nbsp;你发自内心地喜欢自己，别人才会欣赏你。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20220704100524front2_0_25579_Fpa6WQFZvBxy3IBqnR-O1yFnc7Ev.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="531" height="400" data-qf-origin="forum/20220704100524front2_0_25579_Fpa6WQFZvBxy3IBqnR-O1yFnc7Ev.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p>&nbsp;</p>    <!----></div>            

Anonymous 发表于 2022-7-4 16:00:11

谢谢分享

东方之子 发表于 2022-7-4 19:52:31

言传身教很重要

Mars菊 发表于 2022-7-4 22:19:08

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