金戈
发表于 2023-2-26 19:41:35
《金瓶梅》开篇四个字，写尽人间贪嗔痴欲
<!----><style type="text/css">html{font-size:375%}</style><link href="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499" rel="stylesheet" position="1" data-qf-origin="/static/publish/css/style.css?v=1605251010499"><!-- 付费贴--> <div class="preview_article "> <!----> <p> 张爱玲说《金瓶梅》是《红楼梦》的反面，《红楼梦》是情，《金瓶梅》是欲，一体两面，都是极高明的作品。</p><p> 《金瓶梅》开篇就写了人生的四种欲望。“酒、色、财、气”，人间四欲，欲望拨弄到极致，就是毁灭。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20230226193534front2_0_25579_Fowqwu7W5D-cZWKP6vy5tIL-xyp0.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="3366" height="4843" 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data-qf-thumb-origin="forum/20230226193534front2_0_25579_Fowqwu7W5D-cZWKP6vy5tIL-xyp0.jpg?imageView2/2/w/1080|watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p aria-describedby="tooltip144998" data-original-title=""> <strong>1.嗜“酒”</strong></p><p> 酒文化在中国可谓是源远流长，无论是市井，还是贵族，都离不开酒。《金瓶梅》全书一百回，共出现“酒”字2025个，饮酒场面389次，描述了25种酒。</p><p> 《三国演义》中也出现了大量饮酒的场面。从大禹时代开始，酒就产生了。臣子仪狄把酒献给大禹，大禹为之惊叹。随之抛下一句：后世必有以酒亡国者。下令在全国永久禁酒。但是人们终究抵挡不住酒的诱惑。后来的商纣王以酒为池，昼夜饮宴，最终身死道消，自焚于摘星台。</p><p> 《三国演义》中吕布与刘备交战，张飞因为醉酒战败，丢掉了徐州。连刘备的家小都没带出来，数年努力毁于一旦。小酌怡情，大饮伤身。一个人喜欢喝酒无可厚非，但是不加节制，迟早变成祸害。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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曹操征讨张绣，张绣归降。但是曹操看上了张绣的婶子邹氏，占为己有。每日与邹氏取乐，不思政事。张绣受辱造反，曹操仓皇出逃，长子曹昂、侄子曹安民、虎将典韦皆为救他而死。曹操此役元气大伤，长子离世更是他一生的痛楚。古人说：君子好色不淫。真正的君子，也喜欢美色，但是却不强求占为己有，更不会放纵自己。去掉好色之心就是愉悦之心。就像欣赏自然美景，没有丝毫的占有欲，这才是一个最好的修行。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20230226193807front2_0_25579_Fjw47Cx2RcDyKZnxBnmpBFc4EZgI.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="500" height="333" data-qf-origin="forum/20230226193807front2_0_25579_Fjw47Cx2RcDyKZnxBnmpBFc4EZgI.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" 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山西那么多的富商巨贾，建造了那么多的深宅大院，可是如今拿钥匙的都是不相干的人。来来往往的游客，在庭院里依稀能看到当日的繁华，但是却再也见不到他们的主人了。</p><p> 钱财是这个世界上最厉害的东西，也是最虚妄的东西。钱财不停流动，今日到这家，明日就可能到那家。手里没钱的，焦虑地盯着别人。手里有钱的，焦虑地守着自己。贫穷的向上挤，富贵的往上爬。没有一个不焦虑的。焦虑带来贪婪，贪婪带来灾难，一个人要是克制不住内心的贪欲，迟早要惹来祸患。</p><p> 五代后唐庄宗的皇后刘氏为人贪婪，借着自己的势力在民间敛财。国库没有钱发军饷，后宫财货却堆得像小山一样。宰相几次谏言，希望刘皇后可以暂借银钱发饷，皇后都不答应。后来，李嗣源兵变，庄宗众叛亲离，被宫人所杀。刘皇后带着财物跑到寺庙当了尼姑，最终也难逃一死。古人说：民无礼而何为，财非义而不取。一个人如果舍弃道义而求取钱财，不仅良心不安，还会被天道惩罚。厚道方能载物。一个品德深厚，才能承载身上的财富。求财不如积善，积累的善行多了，人生自然也就顺了。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img src="https://pic.app.jxapp.cn/forum/20230226193940front2_0_25579_Fi5-zZ-lmmQVAVB309SRS3jL7fti.jpg?watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" alt="" width="559" height="365" 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data-qf-thumb-origin="forum/20230226193940front2_0_25579_Fi5-zZ-lmmQVAVB309SRS3jL7fti.jpg?imageView2/2/w/1080|watermark/3/image/aHR0cHM6Ly9waWMuYXBwLmp4YXBwLmNuL2FkbWluX0ZwcVJueWlqd1kxWDMxRkhXRVlldFJ6YXNSMUoucG5n/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/dx/10/dy/65/text/QOmHkeaIiA==/fontsize/400/dissolve/100/gravity/SouthEast/fill/I2ZmZmZmZg==/font/5b6u6L2v6ZuF6buR/dx/10/dy/35" /></p><p aria-describedby="tooltip144998" data-original-title=""> <strong> 4.逞“气”</strong></p><p aria-describedby="tooltip144998" data-original-title=""> 《黄帝内经》里讲：百病生于气也。”“气”就是情志。一个人大悲大痛，大发脾气，就会造成身体的损伤。现代医学也证明，一个人发一次脾气，对身体的损伤不亚于得一次急性肝炎。好勇斗气，与人争斗，还会给自己造成无可挽回的麻烦。</p><p aria-describedby="tooltip144998" data-original-title=""> 18年重庆公交坠江案轰动全国。一位刘姓乘客因为坐过站和司机发生争执，辱骂撕扯中甚至去抢夺方向盘。最终车辆失控，冲入江中，葬送了一车人的性命。本来只是错过一站，结果却错过一生。拿破仑说：能控制好自己情绪的人，比拿下一座城池更伟大。会发脾气是本能，控制脾气是修养。</p><p> 不要因为一时冲动，逞一时之气，不然只能遗憾一生。</p><p class="qf_image big noneditable" contenteditable="false"><img 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rr20181203
发表于 2023-2-26 20:00:53
谢谢分享
朕老虎
发表于 2023-2-26 20:13:02
张爱玲说《金瓶梅》是《红楼梦》的反面，《红楼梦》是情，《金瓶梅》是欲，一体两面，都是极高明的作品。
douyun0851
发表于 2023-2-26 20:29:33
不错的嘛
开心小苹果
发表于 2023-2-26 20:46:36
谢谢分享
Anonymous
发表于 2023-2-26 20:51:46
简单明了。
真心英雄
发表于 2023-2-26 21:13:52
还没认真读过《金瓶梅》
牛气冲天
发表于 2023-2-26 21:17:40
不错不错
辛忠臣
发表于 2023-2-26 21:40:09
谢谢分享！
天天乐
发表于 2023-2-26 21:43:45
不错不错